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Friday, November 21 2008 @ 08:53 AM GMT-11

Keeping The Memory Alive

Karen McLauchlan

Losing a loved one can be one of the hardest things that you will ever have to face at some stage in your life. I know this as I lost my father in March 2001 after a long and hard battle with cancer.

At the time I never knew what scrapbooking was, nor did I know that you could keep those special memories alive like we can today through scrapbooking.


Coming from a close knit family we spent every waking moment with Dad while he battled through the toughest fight of his life. I remember the many nights that I would sit beside him and just hold his hand thinking why is this happening?...why can't it be someone else? But now I look back at those times and realize that just because he lost his fight, it doesn't mean that I can lose the fight in keeping his memory alive.

We all celebrate the end of life through some sort of funeral or memorial service but managing to keep those memories alive in our scrapbooking is something that you can hold onto forever and share with the many other loved ones in our daily lives.

I remember the first time I completed a layout in memory of my father...through all the tears, heartache, and walks down memory lane, the end result was the best reward. It's not a layout that I share with everyone, but it's a layout that played a crucial part in my healing process.

Father by Karen McLauchlan

People often think scrapping pictures of a graveside or a cemetery is a bit on the morbid side, but these pictures tell an amazing story. My kids always ask to look at where “Grandad Cobber” aka my Dad is buried and then they usually reply with when can we go visit “Cobber”?? They did not have the pleasure of meeting him, but scrapbooking the many pictures I have of him made me realize that his memory is as alive as I am today...

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Authored by: Angie on Sunday, August 17 2008 @ 10:55 AM GMT-11 Keeping The Memory Alive

I couldn't agree more, Karen.  My husband's death from cancer in 1991, tore the heart out of our family for a while.  He was only 48 and we had so much more living to do as a family.  I started scrapping our life together, and made an album of the 25 years we shared.  It was great therapy and is something to look back on and for our children and grandchildren (that he never saw) to have in the future.  My scrapping style has changed and improved over the years, but this simple little album tells our story, and that is the important thing.

Authored by: Josiedean on Sunday, August 17 2008 @ 11:18 PM GMT-11 Keeping The Memory Alive

This is all true! It is something I should do with photo's of my grandparents! I think it would be a good why to understand more of how I feel! I so miss them, and wish my kids had of met them!

Thanks for sharing karen!

Authored by: Jac on Monday, August 18 2008 @ 01:01 AM GMT-11 Keeping The Memory Alive

Thanks Karen,

Makes me ashamed not to have done my dad's photos - especially since DS5 would love to have them there to look at.        

Authored by: Penny on Monday, August 18 2008 @ 11:23 PM GMT-11 Keeping The Memory Alive

Thanks for sharing your story Karen (sniff, sniff).  What you say is so true.

It's incredible the way looking at a photo of a lost loved one can cause hidden or forgotten memories to come flooding back.  Scrapping them not only keeps their memory alive for the whole family, but is also an important part of the healing process.

I'm so thankful to Mum for scrapping about her and Dad's story, including the time before I was born, cos now I never have to worry about forgetting any of it, and my kids will "know" him even though they never had the chance to meet this wonderful man who was my Daddy.

Pen x

Authored by: KarenM on Tuesday, August 19 2008 @ 03:24 PM GMT-11 Keeping The Memory Alive

Ok firstly....My sincere apologies for if I made anyone feel a little on the emotional side. Writing this article was one of the hardest things I have had to do and I can guarantee you all it was written along with the biggest supply of tissues!!

I love the fact that I was able to share part of this journey with you all and also that I have been able to offer some inspiration to the rest of you for keeping your loved ones memoriy alive.

So to everyone that read this, thank-you for allowing me to share a very personal part of my life with you. 

God Bless, Karen xx